OVERSIZE cupids in pink, furry outfits hand out heart-shaped balloons with “I Do” written on them (in English) at a wedding-themed trade fair in Beijing. Vendors offer romantic photo-shoots of couples under water or at a racetrack, personalised wedding cigarettes, and biscuits with names such as “Date & Fate”. An emphasis on love is a new addition to Chinese weddings—and shines a pink-filtered spotlight on social change.
For centuries, marriage in China was about ensuring heirs for the groom’s family. Ceremonies centred on the groom’s kin: couples kowtowed to the man’s parents but the woman’s relatives were absent. Unusually, both the groom’s and the bride’s family exchanged money or goods. The more money changed hands, the more opulent the wedding.
After it came to power in 1949, the Communist Party imposed frugality. Dowries consisted of necessities like bed linen or a bicycle; guests brought their own food coupons. But since the 1980s the extravagance of nuptials has matched the country’s rise. Celebrations moved out of homes into hotels. Brides swapped traditional...Continue reading
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